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5 Relationship Rituals Real Couples Use to Stay Connected

5 Relationship Rituals Real Couples Use to Stay Connected


"Because I travel so much for my business and my husband is sometimes on long calls and shifts at the hospital (and it's difficult to talk on the phone), we have this ritual where we send each other selfies. I text him 'send face,' and he sends a photo of his face, regardless of where he is or what he is doing. I do the same when he texts. I love this ritual. It started when he was in residency and he got an iPhone. He was on a 36-hour call, and I was missing him. So, he sent me his face. This ritual has helped us stay close to each other even when we both have busy schedules. Even during the most busy and stressful day, getting his face reminds me that my marriage is by far the most important thing in my life." — Priyanka, 32, and Ragu, 33, married 3 1/2 years 

Send Each Other Selfies

"Because I travel so much for my business and my husband is sometimes on long calls and shifts at the hospital (and it's difficult to talk on the phone), we have this ritual where we send each other selfies. I text him 'send face,' and he sends a photo of his face, regardless of where he is or what he is doing. I do the same when he texts. I love this ritual. It started when he was in residency and he got an iPhone. He was on a 36-hour call, and I was missing him. So, he sent me his face. This ritual has helped us stay close to each other even when we both have busy schedules. Even during the most busy and stressful day, getting his face reminds me that my marriage is by far the most important thing in my life." — Priyanka, 32, and Ragu, 33, married 3 1/2 years

 

"A couple of years ago, when Adam and I first started dating (long-distance), we shared funny videos we found back and forth. One day Adam showed me a video of Brian Bodande, a character on a show in the U.K. called Facejacker . Basically, Brian says every word with the B sound at the front...so words like cow would actually become bow in Brian's language. I just thought this was so hilarious, and clearly Adam did too. We started saying lots of things with the B sound. Eventually it turned into us giving each other the pet name of Bick. Now we only call each other by Bick. Every single day, I get to work with an email from Adam, which just says 'Bick?' If we really want each other's attention we say 'Biiiiiiiiiiiiiick?' My phone has even started autocorrecting to Bick." — Kristen, 29, and Adam, 27, together for 2 years 

Create a Goofy Nickname

"A couple of years ago, when Adam and I first started dating (long-distance), we shared funny videos we found back and forth. One day Adam showed me a video of Brian Bodande, a character on a show in the U.K. called Facejacker . Basically, Brian says every word with the B sound at the front...so words like cow would actually become bow in Brian's language. I just thought this was so hilarious, and clearly Adam did too. We started saying lots of things with the B sound. Eventually it turned into us giving each other the pet name of Bick. Now we only call each other by Bick. Every single day, I get to work with an email from Adam, which just says 'Bick?' If we really want each other's attention we say 'Biiiiiiiiiiiiiick?' My phone has even started autocorrecting to Bick." — Kristen, 29, and Adam, 27, together for 2 years

"I have this little move I do where it means it's time to snuggle. Then I run and jump on the bed and we snuggle." — Robin, 28 and Derrick, 34, married for 2 1/2 years

Make a Snuggle Signal

"I have this little move I do where it means it's time to snuggle. Then I run and jump on the bed and we snuggle." — Robin, 28 and Derrick, 34, married for 2 1/2 years

"For those of us with dogs, we know after a long day, they will be anxiously waiting to greet us at the door. Our ritual is called Top the Dog: When you get home, the greeting you give your spouse needs to top the greeting you give your dog. Every day, Fabian comes home, and before he does anything, he looks into my eyes, smiles, gives me a kiss (usually two or three), and asks how I am, he then greets our daughter with a hug and a kiss, and finally, our dear Boston terrier, Obie. Fabian immediately washes up and takes over whatever I am doing, so that I can take break and tell him about my day. Something as simple as being the first one he greets with love, enthusiasm, a smile, and a kiss makes me feel loved, valued, and appreciated." — Alexandra, 31, and Fabian, 40, married 3 years

Top the Dog

"For those of us with dogs, we know after a long day, they will be anxiously waiting to greet us at the door. Our ritual is called Top the Dog: When you get home, the greeting you give your spouse needs to top the greeting you give your dog. Every day, Fabian comes home, and before he does anything, he looks into my eyes, smiles, gives me a kiss (usually two or three), and asks how I am, he then greets our daughter with a hug and a kiss, and finally, our dear Boston terrier, Obie. Fabian immediately washes up and takes over whatever I am doing, so that I can take break and tell him about my day. Something as simple as being the first one he greets with love, enthusiasm, a smile, and a kiss makes me feel loved, valued, and appreciated." — Alexandra, 31, and Fabian, 40, married 3 years


"We purchased a message board for our refrigerator that we write on each day. Pete leaves early for work, so I get to wake up each morning to a note from him, which I erase and then leave him one. Our rule with the message board is that it has to be used in a positive form. It can't be used to discuss things that need to get done or if there are any issues at hand. We also send each other text messages in the morning as well, always around the same window of time, saying to have a great day and that we love each other. If for some reason one forgets to leave a note on the board since they are in a rush, that message is communicated via text. It's a great way to start the day." — Shannon, 32, and Peter, 45, married 10 months 

Scribble Sweet Notes

"We purchased a message board for our refrigerator that we write on each day. Pete leaves early for work, so I get to wake up each morning to a note from him, which I erase and then leave him one. Our rule with the message board is that it has to be used in a positive form. It can't be used to discuss things that need to get done or if there are any issues at hand. We also send each other text messages in the morning as well, always around the same window of time, saying to have a great day and that we love each other. If for some reason one forgets to leave a note on the board since they are in a rush, that message is communicated via text. It's a great way to start the day." — Shannon, 32, and Peter, 45, married 10 months

 

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